ABC
Announces "Hooking Up" Premiere July 14th 6/16/05
PREMIERE "HOOKING UP," A NEW DOCUMENTARY SERIES FROM ABC
NEWS, GOES INSIDE THE UNPREDICTABLE WORLD OF ONLINE DATING
Five-Part Series Premieres Thursday, July 14 at 9:00 p.m., ET
The internet continues to transform both our lives and our notions of
community in ways most of us never anticipated. Some Americans spend more
time interacting with online strangers than they do with friends or
family, often keeping their cyber life a secret. But for those who date
online, turning someone who exists only as text and a jpeg file into real
flesh-and-blood is a mission that holds both potential risk and reward.
When romantic relationships do form and sometimes go bad, the end can come
abruptly as a "Dear John" line of text, reinforcing the cold
calculus of a system in which people literally shop online for a mate.
Once stigmatized as the last resort of desperate souls and lonely
hearts, today internet dating services are a billion-dollar industry used
by an estimated 40 million Americans. "Hooking Up," a new
five-part documentary series from the producers of the award-winning ABC
News series "Hopkins 24/7," "Boston 24/7" and
"NYPD 24/7," takes an intimate look at the sometimes
bewildering, often hilarious, and occasionally frightening world of online
dating. Like the "24/7" series, "Hooking Up" puts a
particular aspect of our culture under a microscope, focusing in this case
on the yearnings, trials and tribulations of 12 Manhattan women. Their
experiences - the connections, the rejections, the dating disasters - are
a reminder that, for better or worse, every date is an adventure into
uncharted territory. "Hooking Up" premieres THURSDAY, JULY 14
(9:00-10:00 p.m., ET) on ABC.
The charismatic women in "Hooking Up" -- ranging in age from
25 to 38 -- explode the myth that online dating is for losers. Included in
their ranks are a gynecologist, a hair stylist, a yoga instructor, a
realtor and an opera-singer. Most speak anxiously about their biological
clocks and the difficulty of finding Mr. Right in a city where beautiful
women abound. They all say they believe the deck is stacked in favor of
men. So they surf the internet hoping to meet a stranger who will turn out
to be the most important date of their lives. Yet their dating strategies
couldn't be more different. Lisa, the doctor, initially conceals her name
and occupation from potential suitors, because, she says, "if they
know you're a doctor... they'll bring the engagement ring to the first
date." Amy, the real estate broker, doesn't hesitate to tell dates
that she's looking for a husband and the eventual father of her children.
Reisha, a technology consultant, is determined that the next man she
kisses will be the one she weds.
In theory the chance to screen a prospective date for compatibility,
income and even basic literacy before meeting him allows reason to trump
instant physical attraction. But if online suitors conceal their true
motives and provide phony personal information, the fallout can be severe.
After a sumptuous dinner, Sonja, owner of a health food store, discovers
that her charming date refuses to keep his hands to himself once they
reach his lavishly appointed penthouse. Most ill-fated encounters are more
benign. When Cynthia, the hair stylist, realizes her date has misled her
about his appearance, she bails out on dinner before the main course
arrives. Another man literally finds his dinner finger-licking good, much
to the chagrin of his date.
For every dud, there are also plenty of knights in shining armor. Yet
chivalry doesn't guarantee success, and it may be mystifying to observers
why certain men don't make the cut.
From the first online "wink" to meeting prospective in-laws,
"Hooking Up" offers an unvarnished look at the rewards and
pitfalls of 21st Century romance. If an infinite supply of bachelors is
the upside to internet dating, sorting through them requires a decidedly
unromantic, mercenary approach. But for those who persevere, the hope that
they'll meet their soul-mate makes it all worthwhile.
Terence Wrong is producer and executive producer of "Hooking
Up."