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David's
Father Tells of Madonna Adoption Heartbreak 10/15/06
The father of the 13-month-old Malawian boy to be adopted by Madonna
has revealed he's still stunned at the "crazy" events of the
past week (ends15OCT06).
Yohane Banda accepts his son David's imminent move to the UK could be
the best thing for the child, but admits he's felt helpless during the
whirlwind adoption process.
He says, "It has all been very crazy. Everything has happened so
fast. I can't believe what is happening.
"They told me a (white foreigner) had seen a picture of David and
liked him very much. They said she wanted to adopt and take him to
America. They said that she would give him a better life. At first I
wasn't very sure. I asked if it meant I would never see him again.
"They said I would be sent pictures and when David was older he
would be able to visit the village.
"My family and I agreed that this was a very good opportunity for
David to get an education and grow up healthy."
However, Yohane is unhappy that "I don't have any say in what
happens to him now".
He adds, "I suppose deep in my heart I always imagined that when
he was better, or I had got another wife, I would go (to the orphanage)
and take him back. I did not think anyone would want to take him
away."
Yohane relinquished care of his baby when his wife Marita died a week
after David's birth. He has been regularly visiting the boy in the
orphanage.
Madonna and husband Guy Ritchie flew out of the impoverished country
without their new son on Friday (13OCT06) after spending 10 days there.
David is still awaiting a passport.
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